Do you agree with being unyielding and pretending it's okay to treat me like this, like it means something that's okay and matters?  ...and I know the Late Baby Boomer lady from Europe I'm supposedly supposed to have a "relationship" with supposedly knows the truth hurts, but this is quite a spectacle, thinking the same thing applies to how everyone treats me in their own way.  Also, I take care of myself, that's one thing for sure and no one had to tell me to do it individually.